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I’m not just referring to criminals. For example, you should not regularly touch your computer screen, nor the surface of compact disks, nor the pastries in the bakery for which you do not intend to pay. And, if you go to a botanical garden and insist on feeling the orchids, you may be asked to leave. Even in museums, you are often forbidden to touch the displays unless they have issued plastic gloves to you. Boys older than I am have told me that if you go to certain nightclubs, you are not permitted to touch the merchandise, even if you put a handkerchief over your fingers. I was reminded of all this again recently when I went to the local care center to visit my wife. They were having a picnic on the patio and they had invited 8-10 owners of antique cars to show to the residents. I asked one of the aides to take me over to the car area, where there was some discussion about residents and visitors not touching the cars. The fingerprints would remove the immaculate shine, they said. I asked one of the owners, “Do they have any Model T Fords here? I’d like to check one out because that is what my family owned until I was 16.” I told him that I knew that the cars were all spotlessly polished and that I was aware that they would not be pleased to have people leaving their grimy fingerprints on them. I also explained that, being totally blind, touching was the only way I could “see” the cars. “If I put a handkerchief over my fingers, would that work”? I asked rather cryptically. He said without even a pause that he wouldn’t mind me doing that if the car were his, but that he didn’t own that particular Ford and that maybe I’d better not. He did suggest that I might inspect the yellow Ford truck. The aide took me over to the truck, at which point I whipped out my handkerchief and inspected the car. I gushed over how kind he was to allow me to actually touch his vehicle with my handkerchief. I was surprised at how much I had forgotten about the shapes of cars. As I was inspecting, the man said, “You’re actually doing a nice job of polishing my truck,” and there was a pleasing tone to his voice. |
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